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4 Ways to Become a More Disciplined Person

*systems priorities progress Apr 12, 2022

I actually don’t consider myself to be an extremely disciplined person. However, the people who know me best say I am one of the most disciplined people they know!

I will say I have worked diligently to become a more disciplined person.

Stewarding my life, my team and organization well simply requires greater and greater levels of discipline.

If I can grow in my levels of discipline, I know you can become more disciplined too!

Over the years the systems I have created that assist me in my desire to be a more disciplined person have worked to help others as well. Today, I’m sharing the strongest of those systems with you…


1. Place Yourself on the Calendar First

If we wait until things “slow down” to do the things that really matter, they will never get done.

Place the following ON YOUR CALENDAR as appointments and don’t allow anything to get in the way:

  • Personal Development: Spending time alone with God
  • Personal Growth: Reading and Study Time
  • Personal Relationships: Spouse, Family, Friendships
  • Personal Exercise
  • Personal Recreation and Hobbies

At first it may sound narcissistic to think that as the leader I should place myself first. In reality, as the leader, the best gift I give to my organization is a healthy me. Therefore, I must place myself on the calendar first.


2. Go To Bed Earlier & Get Up Earlier

I used to hate mornings.

I would not consider myself a natural morning person and I’m never very nice before my TWO cups of coffee in the morning.

I also used to love late night TV. Letterman is still my all time favorite.

However, years ago I gave up late night TV. If my mind was going to fresh and focused in the morning, I would need to make a commitment to go to bed earlier!

For the last fifteen years, I have gone to bed between 9 and 10 PM.

Guess what happens?

You wake up earlier!

How do you get up earlier?

Go to bed earlier!

The most valuable, uninterrupted time of my day always comes very early in the morning when no one else needs me. I can get more accomplished from 6:30-8:30 AM than I can in an entire afternoon!

Uninterrupted time equals more disciplined time.

Who’s our best example?

His name was Jesus and one example of his impact in the early morning hours states,

“Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Mark 1:35 (NIV)


3. Get Accountable

When setting new discipline goals, always make them public.

You may fail to meet your goals, but if you don’t have accountability, you don’t have a prayer of meeting your goals.

Without accountability...

  • I will compromise
  • I will cheat
  • I will give up

If I am accountable, my odds for success go up greatly.

By the way, if you really want to be held accountable, ask your spouse to hold you accountable!

Awhile back I set a new goal to take it to another level from a physical point of view. It conveniently came right before swimsuit season. I typed out the following goals and printed them off FOR MY ENTIRE FAMILY:

  • No Sugar
  • No Sweet Tea
  • No Sodas
  • No Sugar Substitute
  • No Fried Food
  • No Chips of Any Kind
  • 2 Workouts Every Day
  • Salads for Dinner

This was tough...but guess what?

I was successful (for the most part) because I made myself accountable!


4. Focus on One Area of Discipline at a Time

Don’t try to change everything…at least not all at once!

Don’t write yourself off as being an undisciplined person and use that as an excuse.

Self Control is a fruit of the Spirit. You can do this. Start with one area. Focus on one new area of discipline.

One area of discipline spills over into another area. Before you know it, you have become a more disciplined person.


Focus on progress not perfection.

The only way you fail is to quit. Don’t give up!



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